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Your hair may look different at home because professional styling involves much more than knowing how to use a blow dryer or curling iron. Your stylist chooses products, tools, and techniques based on your hair's texture, density, haircut, and the finished result you're trying to achieve.

You don't need to become a professional hairstylist to get better results at home. Learning which products work for your hair, how to prepare it before styling, and a few of the techniques your stylist uses can make a big difference.

Key Takeaways

• The right styling products depend on your hair texture, density, and goals.
• Preparation can make as much difference as the styling technique itself.
• Freshly washed hair is often better for styling than dirty hair.
• Some haircuts require more styling than others to look like the inspiration photo.
• Your stylist can show you how to recreate important parts of your style at home.
• The best hairstyle is one that works for your hair, your routine, and how you want to feel.

Styling Is Part of the Finished Result

It's easy to think of a haircut or color as the actual service and styling as the finishing touch. Lauren sees styling as part of the finished product. It's where the color, haircut, layers, and everything else start to come to life.

It's also one reason your hair can look different after you wash and style it yourself. Your haircut and color haven't changed, but some of what you saw when you left the salon came from the way your hair was prepared and styled.

This is especially important when choosing a haircut from an inspiration photo. A certain cut may require blow-drying, curling, product, or daily styling to get the exact look you're seeing. If you prefer to wash your hair and do very little with it, tell your stylist. If you love spending time styling your hair every morning, tell them that too.

Neither is right or wrong. Your stylist just needs to know what your real routine looks like before recommending something you'll have to live with every day.

The Wrong Products Can Make Styling Much Harder

One of the biggest mistakes Lauren sees clients make at home is simply using the wrong products for their hair.

Something that works really well for coarse, curly hair isn't necessarily going to work for someone with fine, straight hair. The same goes for someone trying to create volume versus someone trying to smooth or define curls.

That's why buying the product your friend loves doesn't guarantee you'll get the same result. The same is true for products you see recommended online.

Your hair texture and density matter. So does the style you're trying to create.

Instead of asking, "What's the best styling product?" it can be much more helpful to ask your stylist, "What's the best styling product for my hair and what I'm trying to do with it?"

Preparation Makes a Huge Difference

One of the questions Lauren hears all the time is, "How do I make my hair last?"

The answer depends on the style and the person's hair, but preparation is a big part of it.

What you put in your hair before and after styling can make a huge difference in how well a style holds. Depending on your hair, Lauren might recommend mousse with a little hold, hairspray, or another product that helps support the finished look.

Technique matters too. If you're curling your hair, don't immediately brush the curls out. Letting them cool completely first can help them hold. Pinning the curls or using rollers while they cool can also help you get more out of the style.

There's no single routine that's going to work for everyone. Someone whose hair naturally holds a curl may need very little help, while someone with fine hair that tends to fall quickly may need more preparation.

Is Dirty Hair Really Better for Styling?

This is one of the styling myths Lauren hears most often.

A lot of people have been told that the dirtier their hair is, the better it will hold a style. Lauren actually prefers working with freshly washed hair.

Why?

A stylist can add what clean hair needs. If it needs more texture, grip, or hold, products can help create that. But if your hair is already weighed down with oil or too much product, your stylist can't simply take all of that away.

That doesn't mean you need to wash your hair immediately before every styling appointment. It means you shouldn't deliberately show up with dirty hair because you've heard that's what your stylist wants.

If you're having your hair styled for a wedding or another big event, ask your stylist how they'd like you to prepare it. You don't have to guess.

Your Stylist Can Teach You How to Do It at Home

You probably aren't going to recreate every detail of a professional blowout at home.

That's okay.

But Lauren wants her clients to understand what she's doing and why she's doing it. She tries to explain things as she goes and physically show clients how to recreate parts of the style themselves.

This is especially helpful with things like bangs and layers. Sometimes a small change in the direction you're holding the blow dryer or the way you're using a brush can completely change how those parts of the haircut sit.

Ask questions while your stylist is working. Ask how much product they're using. Ask when they're putting it in. Ask how they're drying your bangs or which direction they're curling a section.

You don't have to learn how to be a hairstylist. You just need to learn how to work with your hair.

Special-Event Hair Should Still Feel Like You

Weddings, proms, and other big events are usually when clients bring in the most inspiration photos. That's a good thing. Lauren always recommends bringing pictures so you and your stylist can make sure you're talking about the same look.

But she also encourages clients to choose styles they actually feel comfortable wearing.

A big event doesn't necessarily mean you need to look completely different from yourself. If you never wear your hair pulled tightly away from your face, your wedding day might not be the best time to discover whether you like yourself that way.

Lauren finds that clients often feel their best when they don't stray too far from the kinds of styles that already make them feel confident.

Your inspiration photo is still useful. It's just a starting point.

Your stylist can look at the picture, look at your hair, and tell you what they think will work best based on your texture, density, length, and hair needs. For a major event, a consultation or trial can make that conversation even more valuable.

Protect Your Hair While You're Styling It

If Lauren could give everyone one styling tip, it would be simple: Use heat protectant.

If you're regularly using a blow dryer, curling iron, flat iron, or other hot tools, protecting your hair from that heat should be part of your routine.

How often you style matters too. Someone using hot tools every day is asking something very different of their hair than someone who curls it once a week.

The goal isn't just to make your hair look good today. You also want to maintain its health so it continues to look and feel good over time.

The Best Style Has to Work in Your Real Life

This may be the most important part.

The best hairstyle isn't necessarily the most impressive one. It's the one that makes you feel confident and is realistic for your lifestyle.

Some people genuinely enjoy styling their hair every morning. Other people want to spend five minutes on it and get out the door. Your stylist needs to know which person you are.

That information can affect everything from the haircut you choose to the products your stylist recommends.

Bring the inspiration photos. Show your stylist what you love. But also be honest about how much time and effort you want to put into recreating that look at home.

Lauren's job isn't simply to copy the picture. It's to give you her professional opinion about what will work for you and your hair.

The finished result should still feel like you.

Frequently Asked Questions

If you've ever left the salon wondering how you're supposed to make your hair look that way again, you're not alone. Here are answers to some of the styling questions Lauren hears most often from clients.